Our premise is simple and validated by research and results: men
want to do their best as fathers, are most receptive to support as
they become fathers, and learn best from other men already on the job.
Fathers-to-Be Are Highly Receptive to Support and Behavior
Change
Princeton’s Center for Research on Child-Wellbeing found that
even among unwed new fathers, the vast majority are committed to their
child, but many need support early on to handle their new responsibilities
(2001). It also found that the months surrounding the child’s
birth are a window of opportunity during which fathers are most receptive
to support and behavior change. The Center’s Sara McLanahan,
PhD, testified before Congress that the “birth is a magical
moment that policymakers should not let slip by“. The Center’s
earlier evaluation of programs targeted at men owing child support,
which attempted to involve them in their child’s life well after
birth, found they failed because the men were not motivated to do so.
Boot Camp for New Dads Is Effective in Preparing Men to Be
Fathers
Many organizations that have identified
Boot Camp for New Dads as a best
practice program that delivers support at the
time when new fathers are most receptive,
and in a manner proven to be a powerful
formula for preparing men to be dads. In addition to its unique ability
to attract participants, Boot Camp also enjoys high rates of satisfaction
from those who attend.
One example among many of Boot Camp’s effectiveness is Denver’s
Five Points/Whittier Neighborhood, with 55% living below the poverty
level and 6 of 10 children living without a dad. 172 men participated
in a Boot Camp workshop and outcomes included increases in:
- Participation in parenting classes and doctor visits
- Knowledge of infant development, care, child abuse prevention,
strategies for crying, etc.
- Supportive behavior regarding the new mom
- Involvement in infant care
Boot Camp’s approach of father-to-father support provides a
safe environment for men to open up about
their doubts and fears, which is not otherwise possible according to The Importance of Fathers
in The Healthy Development of Children (2006) from the U.S. Department
of Health & Human Services. This approach was also identified as
a key factor in a program for fathers-to-be
piloted in Australia and described in The Journal of Perinatal Education, Spring 2005.
Boot Camp for New Dads Is a Model of Social Entrepreneurship
Scaling For Impact: Strategies for Spreading Social Innovations (Stanford Social Innovation Review 2004) identified Boot Camp
for New Dads as a model program for replication in new communities.
It offers support and a “level of detail that makes implementation
easy for the local sponsors and helps assure the quality and success
of the program while still affording flexibility to adapt to local
circumstances.”
The Return on Investment in Supporting Fathers Is Substantial
The scope and magnitude of problems children
face that are associated with absent,
disconnected or abusive fathers are staggering according to the National
Fatherhood Initiative’s Father
Facts. It
also presents research finding that,
in addition to not facing problems
such as abuse and neglect, children
whose fathers are a consistent, positive force in their lives do better
socially, intellectually, physically and on a broad range of other
factors ranging from economic status in childhood to peer relationships
in adolescence, to productivity as adults. This relationship also
brings profound benefits to their fathers, as well as their mothers.
Given the damage to children from their fathers’ failures, the
high motivation of new fathers and the limited costs of supporting them,
no investment in our children’s welfare is more worthwhile. Sadly,
while the nation spends enormous amounts due to our fathers’ failures,
we only do so after they fail. |